Will this getting to know each other system work?

How do you accelerate the personal discovery process in a new relationship that can help it grow and become stronger? Don't really want to wait a few months to find out all the important stuff that can make the relationship stronger or in the end become relationship breakers. Most of us have little patience in this fast paced world and perhaps that slight amount of raw desperation at middle age make us want to make it move faster.

I came across this book from Michael Webb with questions that couples can ask each other. Includes a unique way for couples to email a few questions every day or two to each other to keep in touch and understand better at the same time. It's available through this site. What are the key questions you want to ask someone you are attracted to. Money, job, previous failed relationships, how do you like it when I touch you here, etc.? I vote for trying to reach a higher level of intimacy (emotional and physical) after some basic screening.

1000 Questions For Couples